Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Friendship in Proverbs

For my Hermeneutics class, we were tasked with identifying verses in Proverbs that dealt with friendship, and then organize them into an outline for teaching. I thought this was interesting enough to pass along my efforts:

Forming Friendships:

  1. Be cautious in friendships you choose (12:26)
  2. Do not make friends with people who have short tempers (22:24)

Preserving Friendships:

  1. Promote love by covering over offenses (17:9)
  2. Love at all times (17:17)
  3. You can endure hurts from true friends (27:6)
  4. The best sign of a true friend is the advice they give (27:9)
  5. Don’t desert your friend when they’re in need (27:10)

Destructive Friendships:

  1. Bad friendships can take you away from God (12:26)
  2. Gossip and dissension can destroy a friendship (16:28)
  3. Repeating offensives can separate close friends (17:9)
  4. You cannot trust people who flatter you too much (27:6)

Wealth and Friendships:

  1. Rich people find themselves surrounded by many people claiming to be friends (14:20, 19:4)
  2. Poor people do not have people running to be their friends (14:20, 19:4, 19:7)
  3. People claim to be friends of whoever is giving out gifts (19:6)
  4. Poor people are shunned by relatives (19:7)

God’s Friendship:

  1. While having lots of friends doesn’t prevent problems in your life, God will stick with you no matter what (18:34)
  2. If you love a pure heart and try to say right things, God will be your friend (22:11)

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Excellent points on friendship, very true as well. Thank you for your Blog, it has been a great help in reminding me that my days aren't for me but for the lord.


See you in war.

Anonymous said...

This post reminds me of Job's friends.

I wonder sometimes how hard it is for a faithful christian to have a non faithful friend?

Is it even possible, will the bad friend lead the good christian down the road to temptation, or will the good christian lead by example and lead his friend to the lord.

Just some thoughts that went through my brain while i read this.